Clinical Conversation with the Trauma Therapist Institute Community Online Workshop

Event Details

October 7th, 2026 - 1:00pm - 2:00pm Register for Free →

Shame says, "I Am Bad." Humiliation says, "I Was Made Small." Working With the Differences in Trauma Therapy

Wednesday, October 7, 2026 at 1:00 PM - 2:00 PM Central Time (CT) | Online | Free for all clinicians

Shame says, I am bad. Humiliation says, I have been made small by another, in front of others. It is a different wound, and it asks for a different response.

Join trauma therapist and educator Linda Thai for a 60-minute conversation on humiliation as a relational and embodied experience, one that arrives quietly through the lowered gaze, the collapsed chest, the apology offered before a client has taken up any space at all. Together we will look at how to meet it without prying, exposing, or overriding the body's protective strategies, and how to help clients reclaim the dignity that humiliation interrupted.

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In this conversation, we will explore:

• How humiliation differs from shame, and why naming it as a relational, embodied wound changes what you do in the room
• The quiet somatic and relational signs of humiliation, from invisibility, compliance, and people-pleasing to the compensatory need for admiration, control, or contempt
• How social, cultural, racial, colonial, gendered, and political contexts shape the experience of being made small, and how that shows up in session
• The ways we can unintentionally repeat the wound, through premature interpretation, pathologizing survival responses, or inviting vulnerability before there is enough protection
• How humiliation can be metabolized into rage, contempt, control, withdrawal, or emotional deadening when vulnerability has been made dangerous
• A dignity-centered, somatic, and relational approach that draws on the same trauma therapist training instincts you already bring to complex work

This is a live, interactive Clinical Conversation with chat and Q&A. Bring your questions, your clinical doubts, and your most complex cases involving loneliness and touch.